Soul mates ?

A soul mate...is there such a thing? I would like to believe there is but recently had a conversation with a friend who is very intelligent and whom I respect and so now I am questioning the logic of the whole idea of soul mates. See I have always believed I have one, from the time I was very young, he was the imaginary friend I couldn't talk to because he was just too far away, but I knew he was there. I honestly believe I can feel him sometimes when he is suffering or when he is happy. (Again you say...dang is this chic nuts or what? I'm sure you will think that in all of my blogs!) But seriously, I believe this as much as I believe the sun will rise in the morning. It is like part of who I am, ...no not like the crap about the "other half", I believe two whole people make a couple, I'm not looking for my other half. I mean the understanding that he is out there, that understanding is just part of me.

If feelings are actually just chemical reactions and our 'souls' are just our interpretation of the conscious mind, then can there be a mate? Ok but, even if we have no souls, and we are all only bits of energy (which we are), then why can't there be a frequency to that energy? And is that what we feel when we are in love, just a balancing frequency...Are we actually 'in tune' with that person in the literal sense? So why then can't there be one person on the planet that we are most perfectly in tune with? Of course if that is true the odds of finding that "one" are well...second to none! So in some form or another, it is possible in my book and as long as that is true then I can sleep better with my sanity intact. :)

I only know one couple who I believe found a soulmate in each other, that would be my cute little brother and his awesome wifey. (Fair warning if you two ever get divorced you will shatter my world....so just don't tell me K!!)

I used to take all of the wonderful pieces from each of the men I have loved in my life and imagine he would hold all of those qualities. But lately I have realized that the importance of all of those wonderful pieces are the way they shaped me and my concept of love. Like fine tuning a piano. Maybe that is why I haven't found him, I still need to actualize further up the food chain!

Even if I never find him, I will still cherish the love I have experienced and been given in my life....but it would be nice.